Sunday, April 7, 2013

The things I wish I could tell young women before they get pregnant but never will because it sounds crazy and it will freak them out.


 

Take folic acid.  Take it from age 16 on.  DON’T STOP TAKING IT UNTIL YOU ARE SURE YOU ARE DONE HAVING BABIES. I know it’s a pill and it makes some of you gag.  Get over it.  Not taking it can lead to way worse shit than gagging- trust me.

Don’t eat tuna.  Or shark (they eat tuna).  Ever.   I know it’s radical but they are ful of mercury, a highly toxic metal.  I love, love, love me some tuna sashimi, tuna roll, tuna tartar- I love it all, baby.  But if I knew at 21 what I know now, I would’ve gotten over it. Find another fish to love.  That’s just all there is to it.

Don’t live near smokestacks or other known air pollutants.  Leominster, Ma is considered the smoke-stackiest town in North America and has an extremely high concentration of kids with Autism Spectrum Disorders.  You can't deny that one.

Don’t effing smoke cigarettes.  Don’t live with people that smoke cigarettes.  I was a waitress and bartender for 20 years.  In the first half of my “career”, I worked in many places where smoke was all around me, all the time. The customers smoked, the staff smoked, lots of people smoked.  I used to strip of my clothes in the hallway because they smelled so nasty when I got home after a shift.  Hell, I even dipped my toes in the cool pond of the menthol cigarette trend of the late 80’s and early 90’s myself, but I pulled my foot back ou (mostly). Menthol Cigarettes had long been enjoyed by women, but there was a nice little push aimed at my age demographic.  I fell right for it.  Capri, anyone?  Whether or not you smoked that brand, the ad still got ya.

And finally, some “Do’s”:

Do buy and eat organically. Pesticides are toxic. It is very easy for them to be stored in our bodies and not be properly filtered out of your system.  Organic also means that the seeds our foods are grown from are not genetically modified.  If you don’t know why that is harmful, you need to. 

Do demand whole foods, not processed and manipulated ones for your body.  Even our so-called fruit cups are filled with chemicals.  Eat a real pear- not a plastic cup filled with chemical preservatives, chemical sweeteners and chemical colors with only a 1/3 of a serving of real fruit.  You’d have to eat three of those to equal a pear.  Just eat a pear. Please.

Do insist on having FLAWS.  It’s the way we were meant to be.  Pay attention to the Foods you eat, the Love that you give, the Air that you breathe, the Water you drink and the way that you handle Stress.  We take for granted these basics requirements for human development.  It is a lesson that needs to be learned BEFORE it affects your future.  Learn it from the start and make it your way of life.

 
-From a mother of a special needs baby who thought she did most of the right stuff but could’ve done more.